The First Time Manager’s Toolkit
You’ve Reached Leadership Level…Now Here’s How to Manage Well.
They promoted you, but didn't train you how to lead your team. This new-boss guide has got you covered!
Five short sections, five worksheets, and a plan for your first month, for people who were very good at their jobs and now lead the people who do them.
Why This Toolkit
The Skills Nobody Scheduled Training For.
Doing the work well and leading the people who do the work are two different skills, and most organizations only train for the first one. The Chartered Management Institute’s 2023 research describes 82% of UK managers as “accidental managers”: people who moved into the role without any formal management training.
I run leadership trainings for first-time supervisors and managers, and the same questions come up in every room: How do I give feedback to someone who was my peer last month? How do I say no without apologizing for four paragraphs? What do I do when someone on my team is clearly not okay?
This toolkit answers those questions one at a time, in clear language, with words you can borrow and worksheets you fill in before the moment arrives (so you aren’t improvising in the hallway).
Who This Is For
Built For the First Year of Managing People.
You moved into your first supervisor or manager role in the last year, or you’re about to.
You now manage people you used to work beside, and some of those relationships feel different than they did a month ago.
Your team does hard work. In nonprofits, social services, schools, and health care, the people you manage may spend their days absorbing other people’s worst moments.
You’d rather lead with clarity than with force, and you want tools you can use immediately instead of theory.
What’s Inside
Five Sections and Five Worksheets.
1. The conversation you’ve been avoiding.
A four-step shape for hard conversations, words to borrow, and a worksheet to plan yours before you walk into the room.
2. Setting a boundary without the guilt spiral.
The one-breath boundary (here is what I can do; here is what I can’t; here is what happens next), with practice sentences for your team, your own boss, a former peer, and yourself.
3. You’re not everyone’s friend anymore.
Five adjustments for the shift from peer to manager, plus a private worksheet to map the relationships that are changing and the conversations you may owe.
4. Reading the room when someone is struggling.
What burnout and vicarious trauma can look like on a team, how to ask, how to connect someone to support, and where your role stops.
5. Your first thirty days as the boss.
A week-by-week plan: listen, find what is critical, set the rhythms, and close the loop.
Team License
For Organizations Bringing Up More Than One New Manager.
A single copy of the toolkit is licensed for one person. If you’re an executive director, HR lead, or program director with a group of new supervisors, the team license lets you share the toolkit with up to five managers inside your organization.
Team license · $179: the full toolkit, shareable with up to five managers at your organization, with no expiration date.
Team license plus a live session: if you’d like me to walk your managers through the material, I can pair the license with a 60-minute virtual session built around what your team is facing. Get in touch and we’ll set it up.
More than ten managers: contact me for organization-wide pricing.
About Leanne.
I’ve spent decades working with founders, executives, and nonprofit leaders, and I lead trainings for first-time supervisors and managers at organizations doing mission-driven work. This toolkit is what I wish every new manager had been handed on day one: the scripts, the questions, and the permission to not have it all figured out yet.
I don't offer band-aids - I build with you, for real. If you're ready to commit to your next level, let's start with a 1:1 conversation.
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